Month: August 2020

Some interesting psychological facts

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Here are some interesting lines from psychology area. Spare a thought!!!

1) If a friendship lasts longer than 7 years, psychologists say it will last a lifetime.

2) Being unable to get someone off your mind indicates that you are also on that person’s mind.

3) That mood where everything irritates you indicates that you’re actually missing someone.

4) Before sleeping, 90% of your mind begins to imagine the stuff you would like to happen.

5) Listening to 5 to 10 songs a day can improve memory, strengthen immune system and reduce depression risk by 80%.

6) The most powerful way to win an argument is by asking questions. It can make people see the flaws in their logic.

7) Subconsciously, it takes at least 6-8 months for the brain, to process complete forgiveness for someone who hurt you emotionally..

8) Overthinking causes the human mind to create negative scenarios and or a replay painful memories.

9) Usually, the people with the best advice are the ones with the most problems.

10) Intelligent people are more likely to avoid conflict, which explains why some people notice everything but choose to say nothing.

11) People who refuse to depend on others have experienced the most disappointment earlier on in their lives.

12) When someone refuses to tell you what’s wrong, you tend to think it’s your fault.

13) If you have a tough decision, flip a coin!
Not to decide for you, but you’ll realise what you really want when it’s in the air..

Forwarded

पहेलियाँ

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हर रोज अपने आस-पास लोगों को पहेलियाँ बुनते देखा है।

वे बोलते कुछ है,  अर्थ कुछ अौर होता है। 

वे चाहते है कि लोग इस रहस्य को समझ जायें।

लेकिन वे भूल जाते हैं।

कैंची जैसी जुबान सारे रिश्ते कतर देती है।

अौर

ना तो  कतरनें पहले जैसी हो सकतीं हैं।

ना  टूटे काँच की  किरचियाँ।

बस चुभन रह जाती है,

अौर रह जाती है टूटते रिश्तों की अनसुनी आवाज़ें।

 

 

Image – Chandni Sahay

नज़्म बना जियेगें ज़िंदगी!

Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I’ll meet you there. When the soul lies down in that grass the world is too full to talk about. ❤  Rumi.

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निकल गई उम्र-ए-रफ़्ता।

गर मिले  फिर इत्तिफ़ाक़ से. 

 नज़्म बना जियेगें ज़िंदगी।

सही-गलत से दूर…मिलेंगे उस जगह….

जहाँ आत्मा,  शरीर के  लिबास में ना हो।

 

 

 

उम्र-ए-रफ़्ता  –  past life,  गुज़री हुई उम्र

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