Success and failure

There was a very brilliant boy, He always scored 100% in Science.Got Selected for IIT Madras and scored excellent in IIT.

Went to the University of California for MBA.

Got a high paying job in America and settled there.

Married a Beautiful Tamil Girl.

Bought a 5 room big house and luxury cars.

He had everything that make him successful but a few years ago he committed suicide after shooting his wife and children.


California Institute of Clinical Psychology Studied his case and found “what went wrong?”

The researcher met the boy’s friends and family and found that he lost his job due to America’s economic crisis and he had to sit without a job for a long time. After even reducing his previous salary amount, he didn’t get any job. Then his house installment broke and he and his family lost the home. they survived a few months with less money and then he and his wife together decided to commit suicide. He first shot his wife and children and then shot himself.

The case concluded that the man was Programmed for success but he was not trained for handling failures.

Now let’s come to the actual question, What are the habits of highly successful people?

First of all, there are many people who will tell you about success habits but today I want to tell you that even if you have achieved everything, yet there is a chance to lose everything, nobody knows when the next economic crisis will hit the world. The best success habit according to me is getting trained for handling failures.

I also request every parent, please not only program your child to be successful but teach them how to handle failures and also teach them proper lessons about life. Learning high-level science and maths will help them to clear competitive exams but a knowledge about life will help them to face every problem. Teach them about how money works instead of teaching them to work for money. Help them in finding their passion because these degrees will not help them in the next economic crisis and we don’t know when the next crisis will hit the world.

forwarded as received.

14 thoughts on “Success and failure

  1. उसे मुश्किलों का सामना करना चाहिए था न कि सुसाइड….
    इंसान की जिंदगी में उतार चढाव तो आते रहते हैं..
    उन्हें हैंडल करना चाहिए….

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    1. बिलकुल सही कहा . ऐसे तो सभी की ज़िंदगी में होता हीं रहता है. इस पोस्ट का यही संदेश है. शुक्रिया मंजू , राहुल.


  2. Very important aspect brought out here,,, the main thing that determine our happiness and peace of mind is how strong we are to handle every situation,, coz whoever maybe ,, can’t be surrounded always with achieve ments ,, as failures are also important part of life and that’s what decide and determine our deterrence and mental strength,,

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    1. I agree with you.
      I personally believe, mind is the strongest mechanism. We should control our mind not the
      vice versa. Success and failure are part of life.
      Thank you Sanjay.


  3. यह एक सही उदाहरण है ज्ञान कि कमी होने का। जीवन में गुरु नहीं थे। ज्ञान नहीं मिला। बस विद्यालक्ष्मी के पीछे दौड़ गए।

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    1. हाँ शैंकी( मैंने नाम हिंदी में ठीक लिखा है ना ?), यह इसका भी उदाहरण है कि वास्तविक जीवन के उतार चढ़ाव , हार जीत सभी जीवन का हिस्सा है. हार मानने के बदले दोनों स्थितियों को निभाना / सामना करना आना चाहिए .

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      1. क्या मालूम….मैंने कभी Shanky हिंदी में नहीं लिखा है😅😅
        बिल्कुल सही कहा जीवन में समता होनी चाहिए।

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  4. Hi, my name is Sneha. I came here after seeing your comment on my post. I had submitted a guest article to “It’s My choice ” where you had commented about Sari being made a norm in dps school.
    I followed your blog. Do check mine . I just got recently featured in local + English newspaper.

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