There was a very brilliant boy, He always scored 100% in Science.Got Selected for IIT Madras and scored excellent in IIT.
Went to the University of California for MBA.
Got a high paying job in America and settled there.
Married a Beautiful Tamil Girl.
Bought a 5 room big house and luxury cars.
He had everything that make him successful but a few years ago he committed suicide after shooting his wife and children.
So, WHAT WENT WRONG?
California Institute of Clinical Psychology Studied his case and found “what went wrong?”
The researcher met the boy’s friends and family and found that he lost his job due to America’s economic crisis and he had to sit without a job for a long time. After even reducing his previous salary amount, he didn’t get any job. Then his house installment broke and he and his family lost the home. they survived a few months with less money and then he and his wife together decided to commit suicide. He first shot his wife and children and then shot himself.
The case concluded that the man was Programmed for success but he was not trained for handling failures.
Now let’s come to the actual question, What are the habits of highly successful people?
First of all, there are many people who will tell you about success habits but today I want to tell you that even if you have achieved everything, yet there is a chance to lose everything, nobody knows when the next economic crisis will hit the world. The best success habit according to me is getting trained for handling failures.
I also request every parent, please not only program your child to be successful but teach them how to handle failures and also teach them proper lessons about life. Learning high-level science and maths will help them to clear competitive exams but a knowledge about life will help them to face every problem. Teach them about how money works instead of teaching them to work for money. Help them in finding their passion because these degrees will not help them in the next economic crisis and we don’t know when the next crisis will hit the world.
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रेत पर गुज़रती हवा सी
सरसराती गुज़र जाती है
यादें बीते लम्हों की .
पर ज़िंदा तो वे
युगों युगों तक रहतीं हैं.
और तनहाइयों में
अकेला पा दिल का
दरवाज़ा खटकाए बिना
आतीं हैं और
चुपके से ले जातीं हैं,
किसी और जहाँ में.
जहाँ होते हैं हम हीं हम और ……
यादें जीवंत ….जीती जागती.
The good life is best construed as a matrix that includes happiness, occasional sadness, a sense of purpose, playfulness, and psychological flexibility, as well autonomy, mastery, and belonging.
– Robert Biswas-Diener 💕
ज़िन्दगी का सफ़र बिना रुके चलता रहता है .
जीवन के झंझावतो को झेलते
कठिनाइयों से खेलते
ज़िंदगी रंगो में रंगा
ज़िंदादिली से जीने का जज़्बा है.
जहाँ उम्र मात्र एक संख्या है.
मुस्कुरा कर उलझने सुलझा कर चलना है .
जीवन के हर खेल को
बिना रंजो शिकन जीत में बदलना है .
ग़मों को छोड़ पीछे मुस्कुरा है
क्योंकि ज़िन्दगी है ख़ूबसूरत
और हमें प्यार करती है
इसलिए उसके सिखाए सबक़ को
रंगे ज़िंदगी समझ बस चलना है …..