The universe responds to your frequency. It doesn’t recognise your personal desires wants or needs. It only understands the frequency in which you are vibrating act. For example if you are vibrating in the frequency of fear guilt or shame you are Going to attract.
Things of similar vibration to support that frequency. If you are vibrating
In the frequency of love joy and abundance you are going to attract things to support that frequency. It’s like tuning into a radio station. You have to be tuned into the radio station you want to listen to just like you have to be tuned into the energy you want to manifest in your life.