The secret of life,
though,
Is to fall seven times and
To get up eight times.
~ P. Coelho
Where words are restrained, the eyes often talk a great deal.
Samuel Richardson
मैं आँखों से बातें करती रही ……..
वे लबों को निहारते रहे।
दहलीज
पर खङी रही,
मुलाकात नहीं हुई,
मैं नजरों से पुकारती रही,
वे आवाज का इंतज़ार करते रहे।
PSYCHOLOGY
Face Situations in Contemporary Japan (A Qualitative Research)
by mathias sager • March 10, 2017 •
mathias-sager-self-esteem-face-shame
Abstract
Self-esteem seems to play a significant role in one’s quality of life. A key factor positively influencing self-esteem is the possibility to freely choose one’s relationships. Japanese tend to report comparatively low self-esteem levels, what may be due to modesty considerations though too. The prevalent East Asian concept of ‘face’ reflects one’s evaluation of how the self is seen by others, while the concept of self-esteem represents the own notion of the self. This article did qualitatively investigate what current and emerging situations in Japan are that require (new) responses from Japanese to maintain their face and to positively cultivate self-esteem. The interviews conducted revealed that losing face seems to involve a shame creating publication of a person’s inadequacy to meet social expectations that are formally or informally agreed respectively ingrained in the culture. Participants expressed some difficulties even for Japanese to interpret what in a particular relationship would be considered common sense and what adequate communication styles are. Social status and seniority are increasing one’s face value. Such value can be lent to others in the form of shared reputation and trust. The concept of face, rather than about self-esteem, seems to be about the maintenance or increase of social relational value. In conclusion, the learning and application of well adaptive communication and coping styles are required to successfully manage mixed low and high contexts in changing private and workplace situations in Japan.
Source: Face Situations in Contemporary Japan (A Qualitative Research)

इंसानियत में बसता हूं
और लोग मुझे मजहबों में ढूंढते हैं।
Image courtesy internet.


Left: A decellularized spinach leaf is pictured before dye is added to test its ability to filter blood through tissue.Right: Picture of a spinach leaf after it successfully demonstrated red dye could be pumped through its veins, simulating the blood, oxygen and nutrients human heart tissue needs to grow.
Using the plant like scaffolding, scientists built a mini version of a working heart, which may one day aid in tissue regeneration.
वैज्ञानिकों ने पालक पत्ता से धड़कता मानव हृदय ऊतक बनाया । काम करते दिल का एक मिनी संस्करण है, जो हो सकता है यह एक दिन ऊतक पुनर्जनन बनाने में सहायता हो ।
Images courtesy – PHOTOGRAPH COURTESY WORCESTER POLYTECHNIC INSTITUTE ,
and interne.
News -http://news.nationalgeographic.com/2017/03/human-heart-spinach-leaf-medicine-science/
NEWS, 27/03/2017
1. Tamil Nadu Youth Hacked To Death For Being Atheist,
2. Wanted to attack UP dargah, Imambara and cleric before Ujjain blast, accused tells NIA.
3.22/3 London attack.
And countless other such news…………….
धर्म ना मानो तो मुश्किल,
मेरा धर्म न मानो तो भी मुश्किल,
पता नहीं गीता, रामायण, कुरान, बाइबल..
किसने कहा भगवान अलग-अलग हैं?
लेकिन लगता है हम उन्हें अलग करके ही मानेंगे!
क्या हम इस सीमा से आगे यह नहीं सोंच सकते हैं कि
हम इंसान हैं.
image courtesy internet.
The Hindu, March 24, 2017—Fearing arrest, two women jump into pond, drown
News, The Indian Express, March 24, 2017--Police had raided red light area in Rajasthan’s Bharatpur. India.
Two women jumped into a pond and drowned, allegedly fearing arrest during a police raid at a red light area in Rajasthan’s Bharatpur on Tuesday, said the district administration.
The victims have been indentified as Shakko and Rachna. According to the police, the incident took place at Pachi ka Nagla village which comes under the jurisdiction of Sewar police station.
पंछियों के नगर भरतपुर में,
उसे भी आसमान में आजाद परिदें सा उङने का शौक था।
वह थी सिर्फ 13 साल की,
चाहती थी सम्मान की जिंदगी जीना।
पुलिस की छापेमारी के बाद, उसका शव मिला……..
पानी में तैरता हुआ।
पुलिस ने कहा बचने के लिए पानी में कूद गई थी,
पर रोती माँ, तन के चोट…..
कुछ और हीं कहानी कह रहे थे,
क्या उन्हें अच्छी जिंदगी जीने की चाह नहीं हो सकती?
कोठे,वेश्यालय भी तो चलते हैं सभ्य समाज की दया दृष्टि से,
क्या कभी सच सामने आयेगा?
image from internet.
(guest post, on the request of a fellow blogger )
From day one, the countdown of nine months begun;
And I eagerly waited for month five, for flaunting my baby bump.
Silently, I wished an early arrival of my Delivery day;
Guess that’s why I kept maternity bag ready, weeks before the estimated date.
Yes, I felt restless; but slow deep breaths lowered my stress.
Yes, I was in fear; when my Due Date was getting near.
Then one fine day, I realized you were trying to come out;
And hence I gave a loud shout!
I kept my eyes closed, not in pain but in mirth;
I closed my eyes to thank god for helping me throughout your birth.
Though it was your first day on earth, but it wasn’t our first meet;
As you were inside me from past forty weeks.
You caught everyone’s attention,
The time I brought you Home with indefinable satisfaction.
Honestly, I used to get a happy-unhappy feeling,
As your hairs were growing,
But my hair growth was slowing.
From reading books and articles on baby grooming to baby clothing;
I sought and bought everything, made for your well-being.
After some time, you started using your cries to alarm me;
Dear Baby, you certainly turned me into a busy bee.
With you, I realized that Baby Care is beyond breastfeeding;
That phase is still special to me since ’twas my level one of parenting.
Sapana is mother of 2 who is been writing about pregnancy, breastfeeding and baby health on her blog from last 2+ years. She is a work from home mother juggling between work and kids. The most she enjoys is suggesting Cute baby names.guest
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