सेल्फ कंसेप्ट self concept #Psychology

Accept yourself as you are,

Never kill the parts, 

that you can’t live without !!!

 

What is self concept

Baumeister’s (1999) self concept definition:

“The individual’s belief about himself or herself, including the person’s attributes and who and what the self is”.

* The view you have of yourself (self image)
*How much value you place on yourself (self esteem or self-worth)
*What you wish you were really like (ideal self)

 

सेल्फ कंसेप्ट क्या है?

“व्यक्ति का अपने  स्वयं गुणों के बारे में ,और अपने व्यक्तित्व पर खुद का विश्वास ”

*आपका खुद के बारे में विश्वास (आत्म चित्र)
*आप अपने आप को कितना मूल्यवान समझते हैं (आत्मसम्मान या स्व-मूल्य )
*आप अपने अाप को कितना पसंद करते हैं (आदर्श स्वयं )

With all flaws- quote

It is easy to love perfection. The difficulty consists in loving the human with his good and bad. We mostly know as much as we love. Only loving God but not its creatures, you can never really know, neither really love.

~ Shams Tabrizi

 

 

Image from internet.

मेरा शहर-कविता

 आज तक ना जाने

कितने शहरों में रहीं  हूँ,

आज भी बनजारों सा ,

 आजाद परिंदे  जैसा,

भटकना और घूमना पसंद है।

किसी ने पूछा आप का  शहर कौन सा है?

क्या जवाब दूँ, मुझे तो

सारे शहर अपने से लगते हैं ।

Treasures -Quote

The chemistry of mind is different from the chemistry of love.

The mind is careful, suspicious, he advances little by little.

He advises “Be careful, protect yourself

” Whereas love says “Let yourself, go!”

The mind is strong,

never falls down, while love hurts itself, falls into ruins.

But isn’t it in ruins that we mostly find the treasures?

A broken heart hides so many treasures.

Shams Tabrizi

secret of life -Quote

The secret of life,

though,
Is to fall seven times and
To get up eight times.
~ P. Coelho

 

 

 

 

दहलीज -कविता

Where words are restrained, the eyes often talk a great deal.

Samuel Richardson

मैं आँखों से बातें करती रही ……..

वे लबों को निहारते रहे।

दहलीज

पर खङी रही,

मुलाकात नहीं हुई,

मैं नजरों से पुकारती रही,

वे आवाज का  इंतज़ार करते  रहे।

 

Face Situations in Contemporary Japan (A Qualitative Research)

PSYCHOLOGY
Face Situations in Contemporary Japan (A Qualitative Research)
by mathias sager • March 10, 2017 •
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Abstract

Self-esteem seems to play a significant role in one’s quality of life. A key factor positively influencing self-esteem is the possibility to freely choose one’s relationships. Japanese tend to report comparatively low self-esteem levels, what may be due to modesty considerations though too. The prevalent East Asian concept of ‘face’ reflects one’s evaluation of how the self is seen by others, while the concept of self-esteem represents the own notion of the self. This article did qualitatively investigate what current and emerging situations in Japan are that require (new) responses from Japanese to maintain their face and to positively cultivate self-esteem. The interviews conducted revealed that losing face seems to involve a shame creating publication of a person’s inadequacy to meet social expectations that are formally or informally agreed respectively ingrained in the culture. Participants expressed some difficulties even for Japanese to interpret what in a particular relationship would be considered common sense and what adequate communication styles are. Social status and seniority are increasing one’s face value. Such value can be lent to others in the form of shared reputation and trust. The concept of face, rather than about self-esteem, seems to be about the maintenance or increase of social relational value. In conclusion, the learning and application of well adaptive communication and coping styles are required to successfully manage mixed low and high contexts in changing private and workplace situations in Japan.

Source: Face Situations in Contemporary Japan (A Qualitative Research)

ईश्वर की खोज में 2 -कविता In search of GOD-Poem

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मैं

इंसानियत में बसता हूं

और लोग मुझे मजहबों में ढूंढते हैं।

Image courtesy internet.

 

 

 

पालक पत्ता से धड़कता मानव हृदय ऊतक Spinach Leaf Transformed Into Beating Human Heart Tissue

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Left: A decellularized spinach leaf is pictured before dye is added to test its ability to filter blood through tissue.Right: Picture of a spinach leaf after it successfully demonstrated red dye could be pumped through its veins, simulating the blood, oxygen and nutrients human heart tissue needs to grow.

Using the plant like scaffolding, scientists built a mini version of a working heart, which may one day aid in tissue regeneration.

 

  वैज्ञानिकों ने पालक पत्ता से धड़कता मानव हृदय ऊतक बनाया । काम करते   दिल का एक मिनी संस्करण है, जो हो सकता है यह एक दिन  ऊतक पुनर्जनन बनाने में  सहायता हो ।

Images courtesy – PHOTOGRAPH COURTESY WORCESTER POLYTECHNIC INSTITUTE ,

and interne.

News -http://news.nationalgeographic.com/2017/03/human-heart-spinach-leaf-medicine-science/

ईश्वर की खोज में 1-कविता In search of GOD-Poem

Where can we go to find God if we cannot see Him in our own hearts and in every living being.

Swami Vivekananda

NEWS,   27/03/2017

1. Tamil Nadu Youth Hacked To Death For Being Atheist,

2. Wanted to attack UP dargah, Imambara and cleric before Ujjain blast, accused tells NIA.

3.22/3 London attack.

And countless other such news…………….

धर्म ना मानो तो मुश्किल,

मेरा धर्म न मानो तो भी मुश्किल,

पता नहीं गीता, रामायण, कुरान, बाइबल..

किसने कहा  भगवान अलग-अलग हैं?

लेकिन  लगता है हम उन्हें अलग करके ही मानेंगे!

क्या हम इस सीमा से आगे यह नहीं सोंच सकते हैं कि

हम इंसान हैं.

image courtesy  internet.