कभी चाहा नहीं ताजमहल ,
हम तो एक अधखिले
लाल गुलाब से हीं ख़ुश थे ,
मिली तन्हाईया ….,
जो अकेलापन कभी खटकता था ,
वही अब शीतल सुहावनी लगती है .
और यह अंधेरे में उजाला ,
दर्द में दुआ ,
खोजना सीखाने लगा है .

“The Whole Is Greater Than The Sum Of Its Parts”. Likewise, The Cornucopian half of this blog encompasses my blog in its entirety which otherwise is scattered into the myriad hats I wear creatively!!
कभी चाहा नहीं ताजमहल ,
हम तो एक अधखिले
लाल गुलाब से हीं ख़ुश थे ,
मिली तन्हाईया ….,
जो अकेलापन कभी खटकता था ,
वही अब शीतल सुहावनी लगती है .
और यह अंधेरे में उजाला ,
दर्द में दुआ ,
खोजना सीखाने लगा है .

Both parents affect your personality, but rejection by one parent could be more critical for long-term development.
“In our half-century of international research, we’ve not found any other class of experience that has as strong and consistent effect on personality and personality development as does the experience of rejection, especially by parents in childhood.
https://www.spring.org.uk/2016/10/rejection-parent-personality.php

Image courtesy: Chandni Sahay.
As fathers usually have the highest status in a family, children pay more attention to them, but the rejection can make a child socially and anxious.

https://www.pressreader.com/india/the-times-of-india-mumbai-edition/20180826/282175061976742
रक्षाबन्धन की सबों को
ढेर सारी बधाई एवं शुभकामनाएँ ,
आत्मीय बधाई और स्वस्थ,सफल,सुखी
,समृद्ध,दीर्घायु जीवन और उज्ज्वल
भविष्य की शुभमंगलकामनाएँ।

Sweet words are balm,
but harsh speech is an arrow.
It enters through the year,
hearing’s vestibule,
And pierces the body
from head to toe.

Sakhiya- madhur vachan aushadhi.
Translated by : Vinay Dharwadker
As soon as they speak, you recognise.
The ploys of Saint and thief:
The working of the inner self,
Surface through the channel of the mouth.

Sakhiyan- bolte hi pahichaniyr.
Translated by : Vinay Dharwadker
बहते अश्रुओं ने सिखाया ,
जो बातें ज़्यादा दर्द देतीं हैं,
वही अनमोल सीखें भी देतीं हैं.

Beauty surrounds us,
but usually
we need to
be walking in
a garden to know it.

Rumi ❤️❤️

जो न देते थे जवाब ,
उनके सलाम आने लगे…
वक़्त बदला तो,
मेरे नीम पे आम आने लगे…

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